Night
We travel from Lewoh through Dschang to The Parlimentarian Flats Hotel in Buea. The drive is long, the roads are bad and by the time we arrive, everyone is covered in red dust from the surrounding land. We’re too tired to care and collapse into our sleeping bags (you wouldn’t dare use the bed at this hotel!).
5:30 a.m.
At home, it’s commonly referred to as a nice, warm shower, but here I call my morning routine the daily bucket. I’m looking forward to getting the red dirt off of me, but in addition to the usual share of brown water, I get an added bonus in the form of a thick layer of larvae and bugs. Moth exfoliation, anyone?
The Orphanage
Christian. Edward. Peter. Levis. Sebastian. Ngasse. Etienne. Henry. Isiah. Brandon. Solomon. Paul. Lawrence. Hans.
These are the names of the fourteen orphaned boys at this orphanage. These children have been abandoned at an early age and have since been disregarded by society as dirty, useless orphans. Their names are all that they have and they deserve some respect.
The boys original orphanage was a chicken coop. Fourteen boys and their headmaster slept on the floor of this disgusting room in order to have a shelter over their heads. We have since built them a new shelter—no child should have to live like that, especially these children who have already dealt with so much hardship.
I meet with every single child in private to hear from him personally. They aren’t used to getting undivided attention and start out very shy and reserved. But once they start talking everyone has so much to say. I hear their stories from the past—all too sad and personal to even begin discussing here.
I hear their current struggles, like having to split five cups of rice a day between sixteen people, or not being able to concentrate in school because their past experiences creep into their minds.
These children need more than food. They need counseling. They need ways of coping with what they have seen. They need someone to care about them. They need the promise of a new future. They need a friend.
These boys are part of the ‘What Makes You Happy’ campaign and I’m very eager to let them know that so many people at home are beginning to hear their words, read their letters and see their art. And that people care. I promise them that I’ll bring as much attention to this project as possible so they don’t have to worry about their future anymore.
Their words will be available on Obakki product in January—please come back and help raise money for these beautiful children.




I’ll pass on the exfoliation, thanks. ;o)
I’m glad you got to meet with boys, especially because they’re a part of your project. I’m sure it meant a lot to them.
Oh my God how can anyone think of a child as useless. That breaks my heart. Thank you for building them a new shelter and spending the one on one time with them to show them that they ARE worth it and that other people do care about them. You are such a caring and wonderful person and ALL of you deserve a HUGE thank you. Love ya
i’m at a loss for words. but i’m really looking forward to seeing the products in january, and hope to support the obakki foundation in any way i can. take care and keep updating us!
You would think, being out of the jungle and in a proper buiding(sounds like the beds have their own eco-systems!), you’ve said “goodbye” to the wee beasties and creepy-crawlies! Isn’t it amazing what you are all enduring because your hearts are so full of the desire to help these children. Isn’t that WAY more rock and roll than the music or fashion industries?!
There are no orphans of God. Thank you for bringing these boys to our attention.
I can’t wait to get shopping!
The story of these orphans really make me sad.
It makes me angry that in 2009 some people has to live in these terrible conditions!!!